Get the Guy

Get the Guy

Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve

Streaming Audiobook - 2013
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Love is hard. But it doesn't have to be. Leading relationship expert and rising media personality Matthew Hussey provides what every woman needs to know to find lasting love. Offering invaluable insight into the male psyche, he will change the way you approach men and dating and give you the tools you need to find the man you deserve. Hussey answers every single woman's three most burning questions: Where do I go to meet good men? Why didn't he call? How do I get him to commit? In Get the Guy, you will learn specific strategies for getting out there and meeting the best single guys. You will also learn why the guy you like has gone cold and the secrets to reigniting a spark with him. And you'll discover why so many guys seem to be afraid of long-term commitment and the three simple steps you can take that will change his mind. Hussey also reveals why playing hard to get is a lose-lose game. A man doesn't want to endlessly chase a woman who is impossible to attain; he wants to win over a woman who is "high value." You'll find out how to create nonnegotiable standards for the way you want to be treated-and utilize a foolproof method for determining if a man can live up to them. Leveraging what he learned from coaching thousands of men to find personal and professional success, Hussey will teach you how to meet more men, how to choose one who is worth your time, and finally, how to keep him enthralled forever. His insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth make the journey to love playful and fun, and his advice ensures success in both romance and life.
Publisher: [United States] : Harper Collins Publishers : Made available through hoopla, 2013
Edition: Unabridged
ISBN: 9780062263377
Branch Call Number: eAudiobook hoopla
Characteristics: streaming audio file (1 audio file (7hr., 59 min.)) : digital
Additional Contributors: Hussey, Matthew
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Jun 11, 2017

A word of warning: accessing the online video clips using the book code subjects you to an onslaught of creepy sales pitches for online and in-person seminars. I almost quit reading, but I'm glad I kept going because there is some good advice.

Jan 16, 2017

Good advice and it does work.
However, you must make yourself into a socialite and this is where this advice fails for introverts like me. I am afraid I have to rely still on fate to meet men as I cannot do what is required and that is meet many men a week. I am sure this is a common lament among fellow introverts. However, knowing how men's minds work is very helpful.

Nov 09, 2016

Of all the dating books out there, THIS IS THE ONE TO READ. Learn how to assert your expectations, without being off-putting, build your confidence, and set your own standards to find true love.

May 21, 2016

Absolutely brilliant!! IF I don t find the guy, at least I found myself with this book.

Mar 26, 2015

Great advice that makes sense, yet is not common sense. There are a lot of things here you can write out and use every day, no matter where or who you are!

LC512 Jun 25, 2013

Loved this book! Best book I've read on love advice thus far!

Sunflower19 Jun 20, 2013

I enjoyed this book and learned some interesting tidbits!

Jun 08, 2013

Excellent read! Well written, often comical and what should be 'common' sense. Enjoyed it so much, will be purchasing it!


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Jun 11, 2017

Most of us are so focused on meeting The One that we wind up not meeting anyone. If I could, I would tattoo this on your palm: every interaction with another human being is a possible gateway to some new world or experience, which could, in turn, introduce you to the love of your life.

Jun 11, 2017

Make a habit of talking to new people. It will do wonders for increasing your basic social skills, which will in turn boost your confidence. You will find yourself creating attraction simply by becoming more at ease engaging with someone you don’t know or whom you’ve just met. This happens simply by doing it more often, and applies not only for men but for anyone at all: women, children, young and old. If you are in the habit of meeting more people in general, it will by default lead you to meet more men. Why do you think you revert back to being a blushing, nervous schoolgirl when that hot guy approaches you? Because you’re out of practice. You can’t instantly summon your best, most confident self for the hot guy if you’ve never developed your skills by talking to everyone.

Jun 11, 2017

The irony of trying to become acquainted with someone new is that we ask them exactly the kinds of questions that tell us nothing about who they are. Ten minutes talking about a guy’s favorite movie is a better way to tap into any chemistry you many share than an hour spent exchanging your regular résumé-type information of where you work and what you do there.

Jun 11, 2017

When it comes to sex, if a guy suspects that any other guy could have also gotten you into bed, your perceived value plummets in his eyes. He suspects that you have no firm standards. He doesn’t feel as if he had to seduce you or charm you in any unique way. He hasn’t had to _work_ for you. He feels as though his only achievement was being present at the right time. What’s more, if it all comes too easily, it also means there was no perceived challenge, which further kills his attraction.

Jun 11, 2017

Since all guys want sex, how do you tell when a guy is _only_ out for sex? Even great guys will try for sex on the first or second date, so how do you spot the ones who don’t plan on sticking around?
The first thing to notice is how he reacts to you denying him sex. If his reaction is too emotional, or angry, or upset, or he is too persistent about having to have sex right this minute, ditch him. A guy will react emotionally to being denied sex only if he plans on never having another date with you, or if he has his own emotional hang-ups. Either way, you don’t need any part of it.

Jun 11, 2017

A guy worth considering for a serious relationship cherishes you, and if he cherishes you, he shows it. He must display these behaviors before you decide to choose him. Anyone else isn’t the guy for you.

Jun 11, 2017

When a long-term relationship ends, if we search our hearts and are honest with ourselves, we may realize that we ignored the warning signs because we were hoping against hope that we’d found our soul mate. Remember that people are always showing you who they are.


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